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What is Swinging and who are Swingers?
"Swing," "Swinger," what do these words mean to you. What about the word "lifestyle?" Funny how words mean such a big amount of different things to such a big amount of different folks. My dictionary outlines "Swinger" as : "One that swings : a good swinger of baseball bats." I usually had a suspicion that Barry Bonds was a "swinger." My compendium also announces : "an affiliate of a pair, particularly a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners." Now we are getting somewhere, though I did not know marriage standing had such a lot to do with "swinging." I should have to call Webster and explain to him that non-married couples swing too. I am sure he is going to be glad to hear that. The word "swing" goes back to the 20's when the black community discovered a new type of music called Jazz and called it "Swinging Jazz." The reference described the kind of dance where a person would literally "swing" his partner thru a collection of dance moves.
Like the Charleston and the Lindy Hop were born, and so was the term "swing." Most conservatives could not believe it when they saw folk shaking their hips and frolicking to this new underground sensuous music. Eventually, in the 30's and 40's, band leaders like Taxi Callaway, Duke Ellington, Glen Miller and Count Basie brought in the giant band age and "Swing was King." the approval for swing music faded after WWII until the late 50's when Frank Sinatra and the Rat Pack redefined the word "swinger." The word's connotation reached outside their music and started to represent their way of life. They were hip, trendy, cool and horny. They were swingers, man. Trustafarian mag was first broadcast and a new age of sexuality was born. "Swinger" had a positive connotation, everybody wished to be called a "swinger." naturally the term was only confined to men. Being considered a swinger would never be considered applicable for a girl.
Naturally the "shagedelic swinging sixties" followed and once more the term "swinger" took on a new, cartoon-type of personality.
Towards the end of the 60's, swinger clubs started to form.
Publications were made public and different kinds of alternative relations like swinging, polyamory and communal living started to turn up. It was not long before the 70's and rumours of "key parties" and "better half swappers" became the common rationalization of the "new swingers." Again, sexist overtones ruled the "swinger" scene, the term "spouse swapper" indicates that the person owns his other half and can trade her when needed for another partner. The 80's saw an upsurge of new clubs forming till the AIDS shock forced many swingers underground and many clubs closed or dropped in membership. Finally , swinging became lots more open, clubs bounced back and state conventions like Ways of life in California and Vegas gained in recognition and thousands of couples came to find other open minded couples. "Recreational swinging" changed into a potent commercial factor, actually it became a sector.
Today, you'll find articles on "swinging" in Time mag, the Times, Details, on HBO, MTV, Showtime, VH1 and most countrywide and local newscasts, papers and mags. Conventions and clubs have turned up in each state. Resorts and hostels now deal with "swing" groups better than previously.
Latterly , in New Orleans, over one thousand "swingers" paraded down Scotch St. In the 1st ever "swinging parade" behind a jazz ( swing ) band with a police escort. Swinging has just about become conventional. It's become so main line that swing clubs and enterprises ultimately have their own trade organisation. Imagine the results of an arranged effort to put forth positive pictures of this "swinging lifestyle." This is step 1 in winning acceptance and toleration for a sexual minority that's continuously growing and we are being spotted. BTW, I looked up the word "approach to life" and my compendium expounded : "a way of living or type of living that reflects the angles and values of someone or group." When the term "way of living" became well-liked over a generation gone, it had many critics that objected to it as hot and negligible as it was generally used to justify habits of consumption, recreation or trends to classes in a system of social classification. Many different kinds of sexual minorities all consider themselves to be living a different "approach to life" from the conventional.
However , the term has been handy, in reality because they help explain ourselves when making a reference to social values and behaviour.
Why the history lesson? The majority I run into find the label "swinger" as a negative term with which they do not want to be labeled. While I understand their reasons, most don't understand the terms "swing" and "swinger" have gone through many transformations over the previous century and may continue to change over the next one or two years. My fave compendium definition outlines "swinger" as : "someone who actively searches for excitement and moves with the most recent trends." Now that could be a term we are able to live with.
Perhaps we should print that definition on shirts, come out of the closet and show everybody who we are. OK, perhaps not this week... But shortly?